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Monday, August 12, 2013

Big Step

Today I took a big step.

I took Gary's name off the last of our joint accounts.

I don't know why I've waited so long to do this. I switched most of our accounts over to just my name within the first few weeks and months after he died. I needed to wait a little while on these last two because I was still receiving royalty payments in his name. But after a year, I really didn't need to still have his name on them. So why after nearly 3.5 years did I finally decide to do it?

I don't know.

But this morning I just decided it was time and if I didn't take care of it immediately, I may never do it. So I went to the banks and took care of it. I wasn't emotional or anxious or sad--just business like.

And now it's done.    sigh

I'm sure it was the right thing, but I'm still not sure how I feel about it.

Lagoon--April 2010

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