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Sunday, December 26, 2010

Missionary Phone Call

Thanks to the great technology that is available these days, we were able to not just talk to Elder Aubrey yesterday, but see him too! Yes, we were allowed to use Skype to talk to him. The video was pretty poor, but I could still see him. I love that we could hear his voice, but love even more that I could see his smile. It's a great smile and I forgot how much I miss it. I love that we could see and hear him laugh. It's a great laugh--and I forgot how much I miss that too.

It was a wonderful time together. Carson was having a great time talking to his brother. Maren was a little on the quiet side, but definitely enjoying the conversations we were all having. We even got to talk to his companion for a couple of minutes. Elder Pauli doesn't speak much English (he's from Switzerland), but he did tell me that Aubrey is a wonderful missionary with a great love of the work. Ahh, that does a mother's heart good.

And, just so you know, I didn't cry at all during the call, or even right after we hung up. But I did tear up a bit just now as I was writing this.

Travel Metaphor

I'll spare you the ugly details, but suffice it to say that my kids and I spent 7 hours waiting in the SLC airport before flying to Austin, TX instead of San Antonio, TX on Tuesday. At some point during the evening, Carson was expressing his frustration. Somehow, I had been able to keep it together for the day and this is how I answered him.

A Travel Metaphor
Sometimes things are going pretty smoothly, even better than you thought they might. But then, there's a small delay. Followed by another delay, and yet another. While trying to wait out the delays, you might go looking for some food and unexpectedly meet some friendly strangers--ones who even tell you they love you. And just when you think you might have it worked out, another delay comes up. So you change your route. You might even end up in a different city than you planned on. And then, in the end, you get to the place you wanted to go, even if it took longer than you planned.
*Addendum
Sometimes you run out of gas and just can't go on. But there are people around you to help you. And they push you to the gas station where you can fill up and be on your way again.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Live Nativity

I've been trying to find 10 minutes to post these pictures all week, whew! It's been a busy one. 'Tis the season, right?

My kids and I went to Alpine's live nativity last Saturday night. Luckily we ran into our friends, the Wildes and the Lindleys (cuz everything is more fun with friends!) so there was a large group of us. We waited our turn to ride the shuttle from the parking lot to the property. We lucked out both ways and got to ride in the horse trailer outfitted with hay bales for seats.
Once the trailer dropped us off, a hay strewn path led us up a hill where we were met by Roman centurions who demanded we return to the city of our birth to pay our taxes.
While waiting to enter Bethlehem we met Lucy the llama.
Once inside we saw and petted camels, donkeys, and sheep. We were able to saw wood, hammer horse shoes, watch a scarf being woven, and some pottery being made. The Bethlehem bakery even shared some bread with us. We also met up with a wise man showing a gift he was bringing to the baby.
We silently entered the barn where Mary & Joseph were trying to quiet the baby Jesus. All the talking and goofing around from the previous barn were gone as everyone quietly observed the tender scene before us. It gave me goose bumps.
As we were leaving we found a shopkeeper with hot chocolate to warm us.It was a nice evening spent with family and friends. Thanks to all those who made it possible.

Friday, December 3, 2010

I Need a Silent Night


I love this song by Amy Grant. Here's a youtube video with beautiful pictures to illustrate.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Aubrey's Last Thankful List

Here's what Aubrey sent as his last thankful list:

1. I'm thankful I can work in Lübeck, it's a cool city
2. I'm thankful our GML (ward mission leader) is actually interested in helping the work move along.
3. I'm thankful for marzipan, that's some good stuff.
4. I'm thankful that the internet guy didn't put me on the total crap computer.
5. I'm thankful that we found Rene.
6. I'm thankful that our apartment is in pretty good condition.
7. I'm thankful that I have enough energy to get through the day.
Some times I'm thankful for small weird things, but I'm still thankful.

In response to my thankful list, he mentioned that he was missing Whirley Pop popcorn the night before--poor guy. He'll just have to make up for it in marzipan.

(Just for clarification, Rene is an investigator who has committed to baptism later this month)

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Days 29 &30

So I fell a little behind this week, but I did think about what I was grateful for on the 29th and 30th and what I decided is that I would combine these two because it's such a wonderful thing--I'm thankful for Christmas. I'm thankful for the festive lights and decorations. I'm thankful that I am in a position to bring joy to others by giving them gifts. I'm thankful for the music that goes along with the season. But most of all, I'm thankful for Him whose birth we celebrate at Christmas--our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ. That tiny baby, born in such humble circumstances, who had such an important mission to fulfill--without Him, we would be lost.

So here's to a wonderful Thanksgiving season which leads us into a wonderful Christmas season!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Today's Laugh

This is SO Carson & his friends! It made both of us laugh.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 28

Today I am thankful for popcorn. None of that microwave stuff, but yummy homemade popcorn made in our Whirley Pop. It's a Sunday evening tradition at our house. If you've never tried it, you really should. Come on by and my kids (who are experts in using the Whirley Pop) will make you some tasty, tasty popcorn.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 27

Today I am thankful for traditions. Old ones that carry lots of memories. New ones that only hold a few memories. And even the ones we haven't started yet--who knows what memories those will hold?

Friday, November 26, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 26

Today I am thankful for Gary.

I'm thankful he's been a part of my life.
I'm thankful he was able to take me on travel adventures.
I'm thankful he was patient with me.
I'm thankful he spoiled me.
I'm thankful he spent time with our kids.
I'm thankful he worked hard to support our family.
I'm thankful he cleaned up dinner for me.
I'm thankful he went to the movies I wanted to see.
I'm thankful he was an honorable priesthood holder.
I'm thankful he supported me in my callings.
I'm thankful he had warm hands.
I'm thankful he loaded the dishwasher because he knew I didn't like to.
I'm thankful he wasn't perfect, but kept trying to improve.

Even though we are now separated in mortality, I know we'll be together again, and for that I am very thankful.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 25

Today I am thankful for food--especially today's food. All yummy. All prepared by many hands to lighten the load. All a blessing to me.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 24

Today I am thankful for my kid's friends. I'm so lucky that my children have good friends who have the same values they do. It makes my job easier. (and thanks to all the parents who raised those good friends!)

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

"Stuff" Aubrey is Thankful for This Week

From yesterday's letter:

"So here's some stuff that I am thankful for this week.
1. I'm thankful that this computer has a mildly entertaining mouse pad so that I have something to look at as it restarts.

2. I'm thankful for the printing press. That may sound kind of weird and random, but just think where we'd be without it.

3. I'm thankful that me and Elder Stanworth (exchange) caught our bus back to the apartment on Wednesday night. It would have been a pretty crappy night if we hadn't.

4. I'm thankful for very extensive College Football updates from Uncle Geoff.

5. I'm thankful that Elder Texira of the quorum of the 70 is doing a mission tour here in about three weeks.

6. I'm thankful that I don't have problems falling asleep since I've been here in Germany.

7. I'm thankful that I found some new dental floss that is about 100 times more comfortable than the kind I used to use. (I've decided that dental floss is not something to go cheap with.)"

Numbers 6&7 are good for this mother to hear from this missionary! I'm sure there's a story to go along with #3, but he didn't share that with me--but I'm thankful he caught his bus too.

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 23

Today I am thankful for my home. It keeps me safe from the outside elements--literally and figuratively. I have comfortable shelter from the snow and wind outside. I can gather my children here to teach the gospel principles we need to be safe from Satan's dangerous grasp. I can feed my family's bodies with food made in my beautiful new kitchen and feed their spirits from my old worn scriptures. It may not be the biggest, newest, or even cleanest house on the block, but it is my home and it is filled with love from both sides of the veil.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 22

Today I am thankful for cold medicine--and by extension, I'm thankful I live in a time with so many medical advances. I'd elaborate more, but I need to take some of that cold medicine and go to bed.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 21

Today I am thankful for service. Both given and received. It humbles us and lifts us. It makes us more like Christ when we serve others. And like King Benjamin taught in his sermon, "When ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God." (Mosiah 2:17)

Saturday, November 20, 2010

"Final" Kitchen Pictures

Here are the final pictures of the kitchen. If you want to see the before pics, look here.

And because this isn't a model home or a Parade of Homes home--we actually live here and use this kitchen--there's stuff on the countertops. But aren't they lovely countertops?

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 20

Today I am thankful for life insurance.

If you don't have it, get it. If you already have it, reevaluate your needs should something happen.

Enough said.

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 19

Today I am thankful for my friends. I have good friends who lift me, who challenge me, who love me. I don't what I'd do without my friends. They're the best!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 18

Today I am thankful for books. I love books and reading--always have. My parents have told me that when I was younger I would convince my younger sister to clean the room while I read out loud to her. (would that work today???) I currently have at least 7 books on my bed/nightstand/on the floor next to the bed that I am in some stage of reading. AND, I get to work at the library which is a building full of books!

Addendum to Day 13

I'm so thankful my furnace keeps my home warmer than a missionary flat in Johannesburg. Dad & Georgia have pictures on their blog of them all bundled up at home to keep warm. There's even one with Georgia eating breakfast with her gloves on!

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 17

Today I am thankful for my Mom & Dad. I can say like Nephi did, "having been born of goodly parents." They weren't perfect, but which of us is? They did what they thought was right. I am so grateful to them for making the choices they did regarding church activity. I know I owe a big part of who I am to them. Mom's been gone 9 years now and I still miss her. Dad's *just* over in South Africa, but we can still communicate via email, phone, & Skype. Love you both!!

(on a related note, I'm thankful for Georgia who has made my Dad so happy the past 6 years. You're wonderful!)

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 16

Today I am thankful for our Father's plan of happiness. Despite the sorrows of this mortal earth, we know we will be with our loved ones again in God's presence if we do as He has asked us to.

{blessings, love, and comfort to Darcee and her family}

Monday, November 15, 2010

Aubrey's Thankful List Continues

From today's letter:
"Here are some things that I'm thankful for in no particular order
1. I'm thankful that I have such an awesome mission president. He's got a tough job, but he does it great.
2. I'm thankful that my shoes are still in pretty good condition. Hopefully they'll stay that way for a little while.
3. I'm thankful for the study time we have every morning as missionaries. It's really great have time every day to read in the scriptures.
4. I'm thankful I can get myself out of bed early each morning without too much trouble.
5. I'm thankful my mom writes me every week (thanks mom)
6. I'm thankful that I got to go to Germany on my mission and speak German. Seriously, it's awesome.
7. I'm thankful that Elder Pauli has such an extensive music collection. (Don't worry it's all appropriate), It might be kind of boring without it."

(jsyk--I did edit the spelling)
I heart my missionary!

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 15

Today I am thankful to own a washer and dryer. I love the smell of clean sheets straight out of the dryer. I love getting a stubborn stain out of a piece of clothing. I love the smell of dryer sheets. And as much as I've complained over the years about doing laundry, I love the fact that I can care for my family's clothes right here in my own home on my own schedule.

Two Great Quotes

Here are two great thoughts from April 2010 General Conference:

Elder Rasband: "At the end of the meeting Elder Eyring bore his witness to me of the love of the Savior, which He has for each missionary assigned to go out into the world and preach the restored gospel. He said that it is by the great love of the Savior that His servants know where these wonderful young men and women, senior missionaries, and senior couple missionaries are to serve. I had a further witness that morning that every missionary called in this Church, and assigned or reassigned to a particular mission, is called by revelation from the Lord God Almighty through one of these, His servants."

President Uchtdorf: "Often the deep valleys of our present will be understood only by looking back on them from the mountains of our future experience. Often we can’t see the Lord’s hand in our lives until long after trials have passed. Often the most difficult times of our lives are essential building blocks that form the foundation of our character and pave the way to future opportunity, understanding, and happiness."

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 14

Today I am thankful for music--specifically, the music we sing in church. Hymns and primary songs have touched my heart and soul many, many times and often bring tears to my eyes. Our sacrament meeting today consisted of 5 speakers, each of whom picked one of their favorite hymns (or primary songs). They spoke about why the hymn was important to them and then we sang the songs as a congregation. It's a program we've had many times in this ward, and I always enjoy it. Two of my favorite songs made the program today--We'll Bring the World His Truth (Army of Helaman) and The Spirit of God. The first I sang with tears streaming down my face (as I almost always do with this song) and the second I sang "exultantly" as our speaker encouraged us to. It was wonderful!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 13

Today I am thankful for a working furnace that warms the air in my home to make it comfortable for me and my family. Although I keep it at a lower temperature in the winter than I would really like in order to save energy and money, it's still warmer than a log cabin or a covered wagon (or possibly a missionary apartment in northern Germany).

Friday, November 12, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 12

Today I am grateful for my kids. Aubrey, my first-born, who has taught me a lot about how to be a parent and who is making a difference by serving a full-time mission. Maren, my sweet daughter, who is kind and loving and is growing into a beautiful young woman. And Carson, my tallest son, who makes me laugh almost every day and is a great young man, handsome too. Where would I be without you guys? Probably turn into a cranky old cat-lady or something. I love you lots and am so glad to have you in my life!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

For All My Married Girlfriends

This post is to (hopefully) make you laugh out loud, or at least chuckle or grin. I've been reading Emily Watts' book "I Hate It When Exercise is the Answer: A Fitness Program for the Soul." In it she gives thirty-one simple exercises to strengthen our emotional and spiritual core. When I read the chapter about understanding men I laughed out loud. (I love when things make me laugh out loud unexpectedly, but that's another post for another day)

Here's a short summary of the chapter. She begins with talking about how men and women's brains are different and so they see the world in different ways. She quotes a scene in Harry Potter 5--the part where Harry and Cho have just shared their first kiss, but Cho was crying the whole time. Hermione tries to explain to Harry and Ron what Cho must be feeling. (It's all very complicated, of course) Ron's response is "One person can't feel all that at once, they'd explode." She writes how she laughed when she read this--and I remember having the same response. Watts goes on to give the example of Mother's Day in her ward. She talks about the difficulties the bishopric has in deciding on a "gift" and how to present that gift to the women in the ward and then states that the men just don't want to offend anyone.

Now here's the part that made me laugh out loud:
"Contrast this with Father's Day. For many years, we didn't even observe Father's Day in our ward, and no one ever complained. (That should be a clue right there as to the differences between men and women.) Now we have a tradition that during the last ten minutes of priesthood meeting, they gather all the classes from deacons to high priests together in the multi-purpose room and present them with FatBoy ice-cream sandwiches. Everyone is happy. No one tries to probe for subliminal meaning in the choice of FatBoys. They eat their ice cream and yuk it up and go home happy.
What would happen in your ward if they tried to give FatBoys to the women on Mother's Day? Almost too horrible to contemplate, isn't it?" (page 41)

Oh, I'm smiling even as I type this. Thanks Emily Watts!

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 11

Today I am thankful for all the people who have served and are serving my country in the military. Thank you to my grandfather who was an airplane mechanic in England and my great uncle who drove tanks in North Africa during World War II. Thank you to the young man in my ward who gave his life in Iraq a few years ago. Thank you to another young man in my ward who recently joined the US Marines. Thank you for protecting my freedom and thank you to your families for supporting you.

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 10

Today I am thankful for a strong Young Mens/Young Womens program in our ward. The men & women who work with (and have worked with) my kids are AWESOME! I so appreciate their time and efforts on behalf of my children. There is no way I could teach my kids all the things they've learned from these inspired leaders over the years, so with a full heart I offer them a huge thank you.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 9

Today I am thankful for small miracles. In the past 5 days, I've seen a few of these take place in the life of a friend. I pray for the bigger miracle, but am so grateful to have seen the small ones.

Because Inquiring Minds Want to Know...

Several people have asked me what döner is and why Aubrey would be thankful for it. Here's what Wikipedia has to say:
"Doner kebab (Turkish: döner kebap or döner kebabı, literally "rotating roast", often abbreviated as döner, also spelled donair, donar, doner, or sometimes donner), is a Middle Eastern dish made of lamb meat (mainly) cooked on a vertical spit and sliced off to order and served wrapped in bread with salad and a dressing.

There are many variants in the composition of the meat, the ways of serving it, and the garnishes. Similar dishes include shawarma in Arabic and gyros in Greek,[2] although ingredients and sauces differ. The English term kebab in some countries refers specifically to doner kebab.

Döner kebab is now widely available across Europe and North America, mostly in the variant developed in Germany. The meat may be lamb, mutton, beef, goat, or chicken.

Outside of Turkey, generally a döner sandwich is served with a salad made from shredded lettuce, tomatoes, and onions—often also with cabbage and cucumbers. Usually there is a choice between a hot sauce, a whiter yoghurt sauce containing garlic (tarator/tzatziki), and a dairy sauce containing herbs. Most döner vendors in Europe also have French fries which can be served as a side or wrapped with the meat and salad. Sometimes more varied ingredients are available, such as hummus (chick pea paste), tahini-based tarator, or Turkish white cheese. This type of serving is uncommon in Turkey, and is mostly found in western European countries."

So there you have it. And here's a picture of Aubrey eating döner in Germany. Looks good, huh?

Monday, November 8, 2010

Kitchen & Bath Pictures

Before (once I cleaned everything out of the cabinets and countertops)
Almost After
I haven't taken a "final" picture of the kitchen because I keep waiting to get everything put away, but that's taking a lot longer than I planned and we have to use the kitchen too. So I'm putting up this one that doesn't have the tile backsplash. And the stove is actually in it's real spot now, not the middle of the floor. And oh yeah, the handles are on the doors and the kitchen faucet is in place too. Maybe one day I'll get the kitchen cleaned up enough to take a picture with everything in it's final place.

Here's a picture of the hall bathroom shower tile
This is the master bathroom shower tileThe bathrooms have new counters (same as kitchen), sinks & faucets. The old cabinets got a facelift with some sanding and stain.

It's all beautiful and we love it!

Halloween Pumpkins (Finally!)

Here are the Hatch family pumpkin for 2010. Hope you all had a fun Halloween at your house!

Here we are getting the guts out and carving. I must be getting old if I have to wear reading glasses to see the pumpkin pattern...

This is Maren's

This is mine (the light wasn't quite working, so in case you can't tell it's the Lincoln Memorial)

And here is Carson's tribute to Pink Floyd's The Dark Side of the Moon


Attitude of Gratitude, Day 8

Today I am thankful for missionaries and their emails. I look forward to each Monday morning so I can read what Aubrey has sent me that week. The hardest part for me of him being on a mission is the limited contact. I know its purpose, and I know that it can't be any other way, but I long to be able to talk with him a couple times a week--or even to just be able to send him a text. And so I eagerly await my Monday morning email from my missionary.

I told him about my challenge and he wanted to participate--love it! Here's what he said:
"I like your thankful challenge. I will also take part. But first a question, do people read your blog? Ok, since it's now tomorrow here I'll give you 8 things I'm thankful for.
1. I am thankful that we have a shower with hot water. Almost every morning I think to myself "I am so glad this shower has hot water." Literally.
2. I am thankful that I have a companion who speaks total crap English so that I have no choice but to converse with him in German.
3. I am thankful that we (meaning you at home) are in a stable financial situation for the next 14 months.
4. I am thankful that some Turkish dude back in the day invented Döner. That has brought me and many other missionaries much joy.
5. I am thankful for the footnotes in the Bible that clarify the weird Greek/Hebrew translations. Those things are great.
6. I am thankful that I can take part in God's great work of bringing to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.
7. I am thankful that we can do e-mails on P-day. I'm not the biggest fan of actually writing letters.
8. I am thankful that I can now understand most everything people say and that I can give a response that is understandable."

Numbers 2 & 4 made me laugh out loud! I am so glad that he can still make me laugh, even from thousands of miles away. (And I scoffed at his statement, do people read my blog. I told him in a reply email that I have, like, 5 loyal readers!)

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 7

Today I am thankful for my Savior, Jesus Christ. Through His infinite atonement, I can be made whole and clean. From his example and teachings, I can learn to be a better person and serve those around me.

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 6

Today (well, yesterday actually) I am thankful for sleep. Sleep brings much needed balance and perspective, physical rest to my tired body, and, to be honest, I'm a total mess without it.
(because I desperately needed sleep this post didn't actually get written on the 6th, but that's okay--I had a good night's sleep!)

Friday, November 5, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 5

Today I am thankful that Dexter's leg doesn't seem to be hurting him anymore so I don't have to take him to the vet. (with no pet insurance, those costs add up fast!)

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 4

Today I am grateful that there are people who have greater insight into the scriptures than I do and that they are able to share those insights with me.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 3

Today I am thankful for technology. Yes, it has its down sides, but overall, I'm so grateful that I have the opportunity to utilize today's technology to do so many things (not the least is Skype so I can talk to my dad in South Africa).

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 2

Today I am thankful I live in a free country that allows me the opportunity to express my opinion and elect my government leaders. I am also thankful that I utilized the option of early voting and didn't have to wait in line :)

Monday, November 1, 2010

Attitude of Gratitude, Day 1

I have a confession to make...I slept through about 95% of the Saturday morning session of General Conference (to watch, listen, read or download all of the talks click here). And because of this, I didn't really catch all of President Monson's excellent talk on gratitude. I remedied this tonight as we watched the talk for Family Home Evening. It reminded me of how much I have to be grateful for, despite the difficulties that I have experienced in my life. Last fall I wrote a weekly post about things I was thankful for (remember Thankful Thursday?). At FHE I challenged the kids to take time each day this month to write down something they are grateful for. I will be writing my list here on my blog.

So for day 1, I am thankful for my friend Lisa who did a small act of kindness today that means so much to me. She brought me flowers and a kind note on a day that could have been very difficult (but surprisingly wasn't).

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Caution

You may have heard me say that in my car, I am a rock star--I love to sing along with the radio or a cd. I hate talking on the radio. I don't listen to a commercial if I don't have to and I NEVER listen to talk radio programs. So tonight I had to laugh when I pulled up behind a car with a license plate frame that said

Caution
Driver Singing


Might just have to purchase myself one of those!!

Happy Birthday Maren!

Fourteen years ago today I became the mother of a sweet little girl. Gary & I were so happy to find out that, yes, she really was a girl--and that meant new pink clothes, and pink ribbons, and pink headbands, and pink shoes...you get the idea. Fast forward to today and I find a sweet young woman. Maren is beautiful inside and out. She's smart, caring, friendly and sensitive. I love having a daughter to share girl stuff with.

Happy Birthday Sweetie! You're the best!!

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

DONE!

For all those inquiring minds that want to know...the remodel is done. Pictures to come very soon!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Welcome Home Elder (Cameron) Hatch!

We were so glad to be at the airport last night to welcome home our nephew/cousin from his mission in Portugal. He looks good in his new European cut suit! He looks a lot like his dad to me--more than before, but his laugh and smile are still the same! He even got to meet his niece, Brooke, for the first time. His mom, dad, & brother were able to go over to Portugal and pick him up. They spent a few days traveling around the country before returning last night. Gathered at the airport was a happy crowd of sisters, grandma, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Even more were waiting at home in Riverton.

Mission accomplished Elder Hatch!

The whole Geoff Hatch family together at last!


Brooke still trying to decide who this guy is


Cousins!

Now just 15 more months until the next Elder Hatch arrives home...

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Exhausting

I'd forgotten how exhausting it is to have remodeling work done in your home. We're in the middle of (self-imposed) chaos, and it will all be worth it when it's done, but in the day-to-day, it's exhausting and pretty inconvenient. I don't even have the energy to move to the other computer to type this so I can add pictures. You'll just have to look for them on facebook. (Or come by, if you want to see it in person while it's in progress.) Probably won't be many blog posts coming from this house for a little while...

Friday, September 17, 2010

The Lion King


We were able to go see "The Lion King" at the Capitol Theater in Salt Lake last night. Wow! It was spectacular! If you ever have a chance to see it, I would recommend it. The creativity of the costumes was incredible. I can't even imagine how someone came up with some of those ideas. (Guess that's why I'm not a costume designer by trade)

If you want to see a "preview", here's a link that shows some of the awesome costumes.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Gary's Birthday Post


Not that he's going to see this, but like Aubrey's birthday post, I'm going to post it anyway.

Lots to say, but don't even know where to start...

It's been a rough ride the past 4.5 months, but we're making it. Taking it one day at a time, trying to do the things you would want me to with the kids, church, and myself.

We're getting together with your family for dessert on Sunday and we're having pie, your favorite kind--the round kind.

Hope your first birthday with your dad in 36 years was a good one.

The youth are having their annual Dutch Oven cookoff tonight. The kids and I decided it was an awesome way to celebrate your birthday. And...I got asked to be a judge, yum.

I'm sure you are busy with whatever calling you have now--is there a scout troop in heaven?

I love you and miss you. I'm so glad we were sealed in the temple so we can be together forever after the rest of my mortal life is done.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Happy Birthday Aubrey!

I know he won't be able to read this post, but I'm going to put it up anyway. Twenty years ago today I became a mother. Gary & I had no idea what we were in for with this parenting thing, but we were on our way, for better or worse. I know it's hard to be the oldest child--gotta train your parents what to do (or not to do)--and sometimes I've made mistakes as the mom. Somehow Aubrey has survived those mistakes and is becoming a wonderful man. He's so funny, especially when he and Carson get together. He's really smart and boy, do we miss him around here when it's time for math homework. He has a tender heart and feels the Spirit strongly. He must be working hard as a missionary because his mission president said he is a blessing to those around him (read more of this letter here). I miss hearing his laugh coming from downstairs, but it will be back in 15.5 months (no, I'm not really counting...well, maybe sometimes). I couldn't ask for a better first child to start my path of motherhood.

I love you Bud! Happy 20th!!!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Small Gestures

I have been surrounded by small gestures of kindness for the last several months. One of the latest was an email from Aubrey's mission president. I know that sometimes the missionaries aren't able to email home on their p-days for various reasons--holidays that close the places they use, zone conferences, etc. I also know that the mission president doesn't have time to email all the parents to let them know when this might happen. However, two weeks ago I woke up to an email from President Pimentel rather than Elder Hatch. Here's part of the email:

I wanted to send you this email so you won’t worry when you don’t get an email from your son, Elder Hatch, today. The place missionaries in Mittweida normally visit in order to send emails home on Monday is not open today. There is some construction going on there. Elder Hatch will be able to send you an email on Wednesday.


He also let me know how Aubrey is doing. Here's another part of the email:

Everything is fine with him here. Sister Pimentel and I love having him in the mission. He is a blessing to his companion, to the other missionaries, to the members in the area and to the many people with whom he speaks every week.

A small gesture on his part, but what a great impact it had on me. I was assured of my son's well-being, reminded again of how much his mission president cares about him, and felt great happiness at what kind of man my son is turning out to be.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Duct Tape Homecoming

Carson has wanted to make a duct tape suit for a really long time. His Homecoming date already had a duct tape dress she was working on, so they decided this was the time to make it all come together. So he made pants, belt, vest and tie for tonight's dance. Turned out pretty darn good! He also made three duct tape roses and I put them together in a corsage for his date to wear on her wrist.

I think he looks AWESOME!!






Songs

I thought of this the other day and realized that I hadn't written it down anywhere. I want to share it here, Just So You Know.

In the first week following Gary's death I had lots of things going through my head, most of which I don't even remember. But I do remember that two songs kept coming into my mind, as songs sometimes do.

Lucky by Jason Mraz, featuring Colbie Caillat (youtube video here)

1,2,3,4 by Plain White T's (youtube video here)

Likening the Scriptures to Myself

Subtitle
August 22: An Emotional Sunday

(warning: long post)
What a day. I woke up feeling so nervous--not afraid nervous, but, more like the feeling you get when you KNOW you need to bear your testimony in Fast & Testimony meeting. I prayed all morning to be able to control my emotions enough to be able to teach the lesson I had prepared--the one on Job. All too soon it was time for Sunday School. I could barely get through an apology about being emotional before I even started the lesson. I taught the lesson I had prepared and strongly testified about trusting in the Lord and about being blessed by the Lord during trials. Soooo emotionally draining, but I felt good about what I had taught. Next was priesthood meeting where Carson was ordained a priest by his Uncle Geoff. Surprisingly, I shed no tears (maybe they were all used up in Sunday School). I was so happy to see my son surrounded by the members of his quorum and his leaders as he was ordained.

After church, Geoff, Marla, & Jackie joined us for dinner before I had to rush off to get an ecclesiastical endorsement signed by the bishop. He asked me how I was doing and I told him I felt so relieved after such an emotional day and that I was going to go home and take a nap. He asked me what I was seeing him about and I explained that I was going to take a class at BYU this fall semester. I wanted to do some online computer classes, but have to be a student to have access to them. I decided that I could take a New Testament class and prepare myself a little better for my Sunday School lessons next year, and that way I'd be taking care of two things at once. After going through the questions for the endorsement, he asked me if I had a minute to discuss something else. Uh oh, that's never a good thing. He wanted to discuss the possibility of a new calling for me--3rd Counselor in the Primary Presidency. BOMBSHELL!!! (no nap for me now)

If you know me at all, you know I immediately began to cry. Here's an excerpt of the letter I wrote to Aubrey describing this discussion and the following days:

"You've got to be kidding me" is the thought that went through my mind immediately. Next was something like "Don't I have enough change going on right now?" Followed by, "That's really hard & scary--I'm doing lots of hard & scary things already." Of course it was a discussion, so I told him all of these thoughts. He shared with me what Sis. Waddoups (Primary President) had said. He also shared with me his thoughts about it and told me that he wanted to be sensitive to my situation--and that's why he wanted to talk about it first. I was in his office for about 45 minutes and when I left I had asked him to give me some time to think and pray about it. He was coming over later for home teaching and I had asked him to give Maren & Carson blessings for the beginning of school. I also asked him to give me one.

Of course, this was all very emotional for me (imagine that!) and very draining. I really felt like I needed to talk with someone about all this--I was really missing Dad. I spent all Monday afternoon at Cheryl's house talking with her, sharing my concerns, crying, etc. She lovingly listened and when I asked her what she thought she shared with me some really good thoughts. I had also emailed Papa that morning. Tuesday & Wednesday were spent at work, getting last minute stuff done for school, school, etc., but always in the back of my mind was this possible calling. I had been praying hard for an answer, but didn't have an answer yet. Thursday rolled around and I had decided to call Sis. Waddoups just to talk to her about the calling. She shared with me many things I needed to hear--I think that's how I got my answer. I was much calmer, less emotional, and could finally sleep at night again. I still didn't want to do it, but knew that I needed to try. So I told the bishop today that I would accept the calling. I still don't have any answers about the timing of all this (did I mention my Sunday School lesson last week was about Job?), but I am trying to put my trust in the Lord, again. It's still really scary to me and I know that it will be hard, but I said I would try.


So here's the "likening" part--I had just testified to my class about trusting in the Lord, yet just a few hours later when I was given an opportunity to put that into action I couldn't immediately do it. Sometimes I'm just like Laman & Lemuel. Thankfully, within a few days, I felt that I could put my trust in the Lord. I had asked the bishop to call me on Thursday evening and by then I was ready to tell him yes, he could extend the call and I would accept it. He didn't call that night and during the day on Friday I was feeling a little bit like maybe I could hide from the bishop for a while and all of this would maybe just go away?? Well, Sunday rolled around and I still hadn't talked to him. I went into Sunday School to find the lesson was on...Jonah. Hmmm, was I being reminded of something? I found the bishop after church, we had some more discussion and he did extend me the call to serve as the 3rd Counselor in the Primary Presidency and I told him I would try.

I don't know why this is supposed to happen now, but I am putting my trust in the Lord, just as Job and many others have done and will do my best, whatever that may be. And I'm still taking the New Testament class, JSYK.

Monday, August 30, 2010

The Difference One Word Makes

This is not my thought, but my cousin's, but I thought it was most excellent. She and her family are living in Jerusalem right now. Her latest blog post includes this idea:

It is not as important to walk where Jesus walked as it is to walk as Jesus walked.

Thanks Melissa for the reminder.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

A Few More Thoughts

While preparing my Sunday School lesson about Job this week, I came across a few things that seemed especially pertinent to me right now.
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Elder Richard G. Scott in October 1995 General Conference said:
“When you face adversity, you can be led to ask many questions. Some serve a useful purpose; others do not. To ask, Why does this have to happen to me? Why do I have to suffer this now? What have I done to cause this? will lead you into blind alleys. It really does no good to ask questions that reflect opposition to the will of God. Rather ask, What am I to do? What am I to learn from this experience? What am I to change? Whom am I to help? How can I remember my many blessings in times of trial?”
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President Spencer W. Kimball in Faith Precedes the Miracle:

“If we looked at mortality as the whole of existence, then pain, sorrow, failure, and short life would be calamity. But if we look upon life as an eternal thing stretching far into the premortal past and on into the eternal post-death future, then all happenings may be put in proper perspective.

“… Are we not exposed to temptations to test our strength, sickness that we might learn patience, death that we might be immortalized and glorified?

“If all the sick for whom we pray were healed, if all the righteous were protected and the wicked destroyed, the whole program of the Father would be annulled and the basic principle of the gospel, free agency, would be ended. No man would have to live by faith” (97).

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Elder Orson F. Whitney as quoted by Spencer W. Kimball in Faith Precedes the Miracle:
“No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God … and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven” (98).
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Doctrine & Covenants 58:2-4
"For verily I say unto you, blessed is he that keepeth my commandments, whether in life or in death; and he that is faithful in tribulation, the reward of the same is greater in the kingdom of heaven.

"Ye cannot behold with your natural eyes, for the present time, the design of your God concerning those things which shall come hereafter, and the glory which shall follow after much tribulation.

"For after much tribulation come the blessings. Wherefore the day cometh that ye shall be crowned with much glory; the hour is not yet, but is nigh at hand."
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Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Happy Birthday Carson!!

For Carson's birthday we first went to the DMV where he obtained his driver's license--FINALLY is what he would say!
And then on the way home from the DMV, we stopped at the mechanic to pick up the car that Carson will be driving (just needed a little work after not being driven much since Aubrey left).
I hope you have a great year--I love you!!

Monday, August 16, 2010

A Thought

Nearly every Sunday for the past 3.5 months I've sat in sacrament meeting looking at the priests getting ready to bless the sacrament and felt great sadness. Carson's 16th birthday is tomorrow and he won't have his dad to ordain him a priest on Sunday. Not only that, but in our ward it's tradition for the young man to have his dad serve with him the first Sunday of his new assignment (passing, preparing or blessing the sacrament). Aubrey's still serving in Germany and not available, nor is my dad who is serving a mission in South Africa. My mother heart has ached for my boy who is going to take this step without his dad. Not that there aren't people willing to step in at a second's notice--in fact, he decided to ask his Uncle Geoff to ordain him--but it's not the same. When I asked him who he would like to serve with him the first time he blesses the sacrament, he said he didn't need anybody, he could do it alone. Oh, it made me sad to hear him say that.

Gary was supposed to be one of the assistant scoutmasters for the Jamboree troop and be able to share the experience with Carson like he had with Aubrey 5 years ago. The troop did a wonderful job of honoring Gary (another post for another day), but again, Carson still had to do it without his dad. When Carson came home this past week, I noticed he wrote on Gary's Facebook wall, "missed you at the Jamboree." Another round of sadness for me.

BUT, something clicked the other night when I was writing my weekly email to Aubrey. This is what I told him (I was talking about Carson's Jamboree experience): "It makes me sad that they couldn't share that experience like you and Dad did, but I realize there are a lot of things we can be happy that we did share with Dad. And we just have to remember those things when we get sad about him not being here for the other things."

Sounds like a good idea, huh? And so now, I'm going to take some of my own advice.

I'm still going to be sad at times, but I'm going to try to not dwell on the sadness. I figure that's a healthier way to deal with it, don't you think?

Friday, August 13, 2010

Carson and the Jamboree

A few pictures of Carson from the National Scout Jamboree and their tour.
(Carson is usually the tall one in the back)

Carson with Bro. Ochoa of the YM General Presidency


Vietnam War Memorial Washington DC


The next four pictures show the troop in Gettysburg learning about forming ranks, closing ranks as men fell in battle, and most importantly, about keeping the flag aloft and visible. Carson is the one on the far right. He is falling down in the fourth picture.
Gettysburg, PA


Strawberry Fields, Central Park NYC

FDNY Ten House, New York City

Washington, DC Temple

Lincoln Monument, Washington DC

And the best for last!!
The title on this picture is "C3P0 and Some Guy"


I asked him what his favorite thing at the actual Jamboree was and he immediately replied SCUBA! When I asked him what his favorite thing to see on the tour was, he told me, without hesitation, the Sacred Grove. He had an awesome time going to the Jamboree. In his words, "It was life-changing."

It was worth every penny it cost to send him to hear those answers.